爱情

“爱情，有时并不能带来幸福；
而有时候，幸福也跟爱情无关。”

有位好朋友，她经历了一段刻骨铭心，让她痛哭流涕的爱情后，深深体会到的。
她告诉我，原来幸福真的跟爱情无关。
我同意，但却又少许的不一。

只以长久时关系来说。
从过程中来看，爱情轰轰烈烈地来过，也因为时间的参与，静悄悄的走了。
有些人，用了10年来相恋，却用10分钟来说分手。
分手后遇见一位刚认识2个月的伴侣，而决定结婚。
自问，爱情难道就是短暂的才会美丽，才能开花结果吗？
他们想的到底是什么？
爱，不是时间的俘虏，但却永远得败给了时间。
世界的变化，让人与人之间容易建立桥梁，也容易竖立一道墙。
变化让人的思想容易变得复杂，而忘了最根本的意义。
两个人为了爱情走在一起，却因为现实的变化而分开。
爱情，没有理智。
别说：我爱你，但是.....
更别说：我从没爱过你。
能走在一起，要不是爱过，哪有力气牵手，哪有力气为对方付出？
能走在一起，要不是不爱了，你哪有可能找出“理智”的理由，让自己活得更好。
骗子，往往就是这么来着。
但，事事无绝对，或许还有很多例外我还没探讨出来。

前天给朋友通了几封信息，问她们还好吗？
她说，她变了很多，很为她付出，所以她也要竭尽所能地保护她，为她付出，即使常常心不在焉。
爱情，是一个一起努力建立未来的关系，不是一场付出计算赛。
我说过了，“理智”不在爱的世界里。
即使难过，也得快乐；因为身边这位是自己的唯一，一个不二的角色。
或许有时候沉思时，会想：换另个男人来当我的唯一，我能更幸福呢！
可是，谨记：最好的并不一定是适合我们的，而最适合我们的一定是我们最好的。
人，生活在花花世界里，总是自私地抱着不知足的心来探索对自己最好的。
人，各有所见，因为大家拥有不一样的事物，所以看见别人拥有而自己没有的，就会是最好的。
事实上，所有事物都大同小异，可是因为不曾拥有而觉得新鲜，才会说那是最好的。
我们不该盲目寻找最好的爱情，而是为自己找个最适合的伴侣过生活。

我希望，全天下有情人终成眷属！
:)

事实的难过

好几天没好好给自己的心情做出简述，感觉像是沉醉在某个梦境里了。

我的心，早已经不知飞向何方了。

梦境，毕竟比任何现实情境来得美丽。

就因如此，当沉醉梦境的我回头望望现实的世界，不禁悲观了起来。

常常觉得幸运的我，再度陷入自我困惑中。

如果别人问我，你对你做过的事感到后悔过吗？

我会毫不犹豫地说我有，那是我有生以来犯下最大的错。

这个错在我们之间建立了一道墙，好高好高。

我在怎么努力的跨，用力地往上跳，我仍无法越过他。

这道墙透明地让我看穿了他的心，他的理念。

但是我却碰不着，动不了。

这道墙，把我们变成了你和我。

我们哭过，难过过，深爱过，痛恨过...

这过程是我自私地建造的，我自私地以为这样对大家都好。

可是事实证明，你正一步步地变得更好，而我却还在原地。

现在，换我配不上你。

现在，换我努力地赶上你，再把那道墙狠狠地拆下。

或许需要很多的时间，更多的勇气，但是我绝对不会放弃。

人嘛！不就是遇到晴天的美丽，却又想念雨天的华丽。

我不会再犯同一个错了。

对不起，事实，你实在太残酷了。

The 2011 Birthday Bashes

Lock my lazy mode, and now I'm energetically uploading the previous birthday celebration in year 2011.

All these photos are found in my camera, Reddie's memory card.

Fortunately, there are still lots of photos that in good condition and not deleted. :)

Oops, I'm here to blogging with English today.

Since there is about two months ago matters, I have to recall them back and go through it as simple as possible.

Lazy mode still a lil unlocked. They fight against my hardworking genes. XD

Alright, time to recall back.... OMG, this is about 3 months ago.

Yinki's birthday!

The only September baby in our besties.

She celebrated her 21st birthday in a restaurant located in Alam Damai, the place that always nearby everyone of us.

I still remember, there's a rainy night, and I was the driver of the night.

Because of the bloody rain, I wear slipper instead of heals.

*I'm so afraid of falling down, the floor is wet somemore!*

Now, let the photos do talks, with my simple descriptions. :)

The middle one, the birthday girl of Sept, Yinki. Another 2 were: Stella and Fang.

Don't hesitate, Fang is the one in red and my pretty Stella is the one in polka white top. <3

Here come another angle of them. :)

The big key birthday cake! Yinki's mum always treat her as "bou bui", so on the cake plate, there's also an only Chinese words: 宝贝！<3

Chin and Fang.

They are buddy, they are machi, they are brothers, they also can be sisters! hahaha

so lovely!

Here comes our sweet babe, Shirley, in the middle with the two....... buddy.

I don't know what were they talking, but I sure that Shirley wasn't willing to listen! hahaha!

Take 2# <3

This is Jason with Chai Li and Annoying Chin. I'm sorry that there're only few photos about Yinki's Birthday, Because the main camera at that day was Fang's camera. For more photos for Yinki's Birthday, please go through Yinki's FB! :D

https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10150293080509843.362809.718469842&type=3

The next birthday celebration was our Angel babe.

Everybody seen her would usually be impressed by her name with her nice appearance.

She always looks great, and gorgeous in any situation, this is unique attitude.

We celebrated her's birthday at Morganfield's, Pavillion Kuala Lumpur.

It's a well known steak house! Yummilicious!

And the meal portion were so big as I couldn't finished it! x.x

Few photos to do the talks.

She's Angel, the pretty and gorgeous birthday girl!

We are both October babies <3

I can't stop shooting them because they just "unfortunately" sitting opposite me! hahaha

Jin Liew with Ryan Jin!

Twins Jin! XD

Here's Stella babe with Chin bro.

Both of 'em looks a lil bored, but actually they both are addicted into the Mr. Bean movie with showing in the restaurant!

This is concentration!

This lil... Hmm, the angle putting him so little. XD

He is Angel's younger brother! Terrence.

Owh, I miss the day with all the Didis... :S

Such a handsome man, yea, he is Angel's boyfiee..

They are so lovely always! :)

This photo contain historical value.

Without asking my babe's permission. Please forgive me babe, I just want to get this in my memory, can I? <3

Mr. Bean on show! XD

Next,

Let's look into my family's birthday celebration!

Hehe, it's my dad's birthday! <3

That's a Friday that he push-off the usual basketball time for a dinner with my dad.

Dad's birthday was celebrated in 相见欢restaurant , Taman Billion.

Dad chosen this place himself, and he love western food so much.

After this, I decided to bring them to Western Food's restaurant often, after my work had begun! XD

Let's look through some photos of the day.

This is the cupcakes bought by my sister-in-law from e-curves.

Unfortunately, I destroyed it. :(

That day I was in a rush, and I accidently seat on it, the cakes were fell everywhere in the car.

Family, always the most lovely.

They would understand the fault that you had done, and forgiving everytime you did wrong.

I'm so glad that they are always forgiving me, including this. :D

Little boy which was disgruntled on that day. :s

But, he still managed to smile to me! <3

Baby girl with mama! <3

Grandpa feeding grandson eat... cupcake I think. :D

This would be valuable after 30 years later.

When I become an auntie, and Dickson become a smart guy. <3

Our family's group photo, #take1 <3

#take2 <3

Debit to my man which having problem with the night photoshooting.

They are badly blur!

I love this photo quite alot.

Guess what, mum was smiling happily and dad looks so great too.

The greatest thing is, my man was also acting cute with Dickson!

This is <3

Baby girl looking at my man, why huh?

Here come a birthday cake to substitute the damaged cupcakes. :)

Happy Birthday Pappa!

<3

#talktomyhand!

This is a pair of ................ couple! <3

Fill in the blank :p

Naughty boy with mama <3

She don't what to look at me! grrrr...

And then....

All the portrait are as below:

After all the memorable friends and family birthday celebration!

Mine turn to be shared. :D

My 2011 21st birthday bash was held at my home at 4 days in advance.

My parents were so willing to held me a party and invited everyone to my house for a great celebration with beers and talks. So, I finally made a decision to have it at home.

I'm so glad that all of my nearest and besties friends and family were attending generously.

Thanks a lot to everyone! <3

This is the most photos part, enjoy the photo viewing! :D

This is my cousin brother with his beloved wifey and son.

Family, looks so sweet in this way!

Elegant and romatic!

Bro Chin with beers.

I wish they were drunk that night! dang! XD

Pretty tomato! <3

Coming next are all about my besties <3

She came and give me a surprise on that night!

Shock me and surprising me alot!

I love you babe mama! <3

Photocopied successfully! XD

Heehee! Family photos with Ming Ming and Suanne too! <3 BIG LOVE!

He is the one and the only one that could bring me happiness no matter what happened.

TQVM to be by my side always! <3

This is our "currently" full family photography.

Bro's gf wasn't free at that moment :(

Make a wish, make a wish!

Huuuu~

Blew it and dream come true! <3

<3

Naughty girl in action :

:p

~.~

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Oh and MJ's lovely baby girl!

She's so cute!! <3

First time receiving roses! <3

Thanks Tomatos with her's bf.. hahaha XD

I'm officially 21st!

O-L-D!

The coming photos are about my besties since I was so young.

In my secondary school.

We don't really study in the same class, but we do keep our relationship as close as we does.I'm happy to have you girls by my side since the day I knew you all in my primary and secondary school.

And now I also glad that all of you are still willing to be with me, even though it isn't that often.

TQVM my dear friends! <3

I love you girls <3

Hahaha! I smile like a nerdy! ><"

Besties ever! They are all time best friends of mine!

I love everyone of you! <3

Roses for wallpaper <3

I'm always the princess of 'em! <3

With my love one! <3

#take1

#take2

Grabbed chances to kiss my parents!

I love both you so much <3

Naughty boy, always eye on Ipad! Steve Jobs fans! grrr...

Thanks for the lil surprise from my besties!

You all are smurfy good!

I love the smurfy so much!

and it means how much I love you all too <3