Tuesday, December 30, 2014

施比受更有福

俗语说得好:“施比受更是福”。
在这个水深火热的季节,水灾淹没了多少人的家乡,侵蚀了多少老人家多年来保存有加的历史文物。
眼见一天天的新闻报道,水位在雨量每天增加的同时,不停地涨高。
即使已经听雨了,也没办法让洪水退下。
即使洪水退去,也留下难以抹去的泥迹。
可知道,天灾无情,但人间情将无所不在。

今天,是我们从槟城凯旋归来的好日子。
启程回来之前,我到了古林去做完我的后续工作。
在那里带着我一块儿工作的是一位engineer,我们的工作虽然没那么顺利,可是我们同样保持乐观地面对,并一起解决了问题。
工作之余,我们还闲聊了一会儿。
他,给我的印象和体会是自由和快乐的象征。他向往自由所以特别地随性。
从他说话,跟每一个人的沟通方式,我看见了耐心,感觉到关怀,也少不了体谅。
他说:
“我们这里工作是很自由的,很随性的,没有了老板或主管的督促,我们独自成为自己的老板或主管,我们每天都在管理好自己和自己该做的事情。很多时候,大家都认为管理员工是件很不容易的事情,但它也必定不会太难。工作嘛,寻求的也不过是生活的基础,而人的最根本莫过于过得多快乐,多自在。
我们没必要因为一些自己执著的事情而牺牲自己的快乐,健康,甚至幸福。
比如说,人总得休息,总得吃饭。工作再忙,再急,都不能忽略自己的健康。放长远些看,如果挨出病了谁人痛苦呢?撇开依赖别人不说,就自身的家人已经会有所影响。试想想,曾经是多么能干的人,病倒了,成为了别人的负担,那感受绝对不好受。
所以,我们永远要回到生活的原理:平衡。
一个偏于工作的生活会带来后患,一个偏于享受的生活会让人变得懒散。
一个偏于自我的生活会孤独,一个偏于合群的人会迷失。
平衡的意思就是活在当下,成为你当下该成为的那个人。
我们选择了在当下要成为什么样的人,我们就会是那个人。
很多人为了攀爬得更高而越过了人性的底线。可知道,冲破了的底线,就不再是底线了。
这些底线将会是我们人生的guidelines,失去了它们,我们就会迷失方向...”
他说的这点点滴滴,虽然我不能够完整地记录下来,可是根据我的记忆拼凑了这段,我认为真有意义的对话。
我第一次联络他,到我第一眼见到他,我全然不知我们会有如此美妙的对话。

其实,他说的一切都没有对错,只是看看我们有多认同他。
我自己的话,我没不认同,但我却对关于生活的有附加:
“无论我们过去做了什么选择,对的,错的,只要现在的这一刻,你选择了焦点向外地去看每一件事,站在不一样的角度,将心比心,很多无畏的误会都是可以轻易解决的。更能够带给身边的人更多的感动。”
这段对话让我想起我最完美的100天。
我相信,永远的我都会选择成为那100天里成为的那位。
这段对话也让我想起了报章上,FB上,还有各个社交网络看见的报道,“重灾”。
我不能就这样看着这些天灾让人情变薄弱,我决定要做些什么。

天意总是来得正是时候。
在我们从古林回KL的途中,我们遇见了两队赈灾车队...
他们带领着几罗里的粮食,和饮用水,准备送往灾区给予帮助。
这样的事情看在眼里就是一阵阵地感动。
多么震撼人心的小小举动。
所以,我决定不忘去付出自己可给予的。

另外,对于找到失联客机QZ8501残骸与乘客遗体,我再次给予最深切的慰问。
乘客的家属必定都要坚强地面对。
加油!

Sunday, December 28, 2014

感触

星期日,我们的假日,原属懒散无比的一天,我却坚持要坐着把自己的假日享受完。
也正因为在酒店里的线路并没有很好,我不能浏览社交网页,所以又来到了这件稍微舒适的咖啡馆来享用咖啡。
一年以后,这里的确改变了不少,这酒店附近开了好几间咖啡馆,而我却钟爱这一家叫"De Nice Coffee"的。=)
可能就我就是这个感觉的女孩,喜欢愉悦而不吵杂的氛围。呵呵~
在这里打开电脑,看看Running Man,看看社交网页,和一位近三年没见面的可爱营友。
想当年,我们还好年轻地一起离开了家到了一个不熟悉的地方去执行国民服务。
那一切美好的回忆还真历历在目。
这位可爱的营友,我在营里都只叫她“可爱”。她人矮矮小小的,说起话来也挺娃娃的,整体上来看,就是个十分可爱的小妹。=)
她,是一位白衣天使,护士。一位看似胆小怕事的小妹却是如此伟大的白衣天使。这证明了,我们真的不能光看表面的。
现在的她也还是离乡背井地到新加坡工作,很独立的孩子,怎么那么惹人疼呢?
聊天中,听说了很多护士们的辛酸史。
听着听着,突然想起了这件很有意义的事情,就是让她要把自己每天或是特别辛酸的事迹都好好记录下来。
可她说,护士们都不能拥有任何部落格,因为那有违反一位护士的专业精神。
*也对啦,不是每一位病人都愿意成为别人的饭后余闻。
所以,我只建议她写下自己的一点一滴。
在我眼里,护士真是份神圣的工作,她们付出了时间,精力和青春为求病人们都能健健康康地离开医院。这么神圣的操守可真不是我们这些做文职能了解到的。
听她说工作有多忙碌有多辛苦,真的,我无意间就敬佩了她。
虽然还是会有些怨气,毕竟人还是皮肉之躯,但是我知道他比我们任何一个人都清楚什么是人生的生,老,病,死。
有很多事情,只要不把焦点放在自己的感受和情绪上,都会变得十分动人,十分有意义。
感恩我在这一年里参与一个很有意义的课程,遇见了一群让我看懂这份情意,意义的人。
从前,我常常把自己埋在自己的感受和情绪里,把自己一层一层地包裹着,不让别人看见,默默地一味地认为别人总得有那么一刻了解我也有情绪,即便我笑得比任何人都开怀。
很多事情发生了,我却默不出声,直到哪天同样的事情发生时才一再抱怨,让事情变得更加糟糕。
现在,我慢慢地学习怎么让自己从不同的角度去看一件事情,或许很多事情我们想着想着就不说了,不做了,可是从不一样的角度看事情让我有去说去做的勇气,去认识人最真的一面。
很多时候,人太聪明了,太理智了,就会错过很多自己想做的事情。
很多时候,因为怕事了,怕错了,怕输了,就会失去了感触这么美丽的东西。
真谢谢可爱让我找回了很多感触,所以想她这么美丽的天使,怎么能够不爱呢?=)

说到这里,我顿时想起了今天早上浏览面子书看见的一则新闻。
亚航一架从印度飞往新加坡的飞机失联了。
继这整个月的雨季,马来西亚各地都在淹水。大家都在赈灾,我之前到过的工作地方,Kemaman都因为水灾没办法如期在让我们到那里工作。而且各地都处于水深火热的状态。
愿雨季赶快过去,让灾区都整理回自己的家园。
而失联的亚航,虽看见有人发表说已证实坠毁,但因为还没看见官方正式的发表,我们都得尽全力地给这飞机上的所有乘客和机组人员祷告,愿大家都平安归来。

最深切的祷告。

Sunday, December 14, 2014

心态

同一条路,我们走了又走…
同一个方向,我们徘徊了又离开、离开了又回来。
兜兜转转…
人生就是这样~

最近看了一部电视剧,挺有意思的。
探讨人性和利益的纠葛关系…
我们可以把人生看得很痛苦、也随之活得痛苦…
我们也能以正面的心态去面对人生,喜怒哀乐,总会过去的…只有正面的心态才是紧握在我们双手的。
你让它永恒,它就永恒地存在着…

所有,我们的人生就是要保持正面!
加油啦!

我,一路向北…
又来到了这里…
让学习在生活里添上色彩☺️😘

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

感恩

在kemaman的第二天,也就是昨天。
因为一些小事,气呼呼地一句话也没说。
直到今天...
我再一次深深体会到“每件事情发生都会有个源头/有个原因”。
因小事而容易触火的我真的会抗拒和别人交流,放弃沟通。
当时的我想着:我多么为着你着想,难道不值得你点头领情吗?
我一直以为,我重的是感情,可是其实那多半是感受。
我把焦点都放在了我生气地感受上。
这样的我,开始抱怨,开始自我封闭,开始扮演起受害者的角色起来。
人,就是这么神奇的动物。
要不是什么事发生了,我们绝对不愿意去看见我们和身边人的关系和感情。
这一次的出游,让我深深体会到:
“人就是有权利选择,而别人的选择并非我们所能改变的,那么我们就得学会尊重别人的选择”。
=) 很棒的体会吧?

可是呢,今天我在公司门口的楼梯级滑倒了。
原本以为只是小伤而已,并没有很在意我的伤势。
直到我坐着工作了好一段时间,才发现原来脚已经肿得我没办法踏上一步了。
这时候我开始着急了。
要上个厕所也得爬上下一层的楼梯,这次麻烦可大了。
可我不得不赞许自己的毅力。
我耐着那一步一步地疼痛,慢慢地一拐一拐地学习走着下楼。
其实,很多事情一个人办是非常费力气的。
只要不介意地开口,凭着大家的帮忙,就是那么不费力气地我们办到了。
从放工到看医生,到吃晚餐,到回酒店,大家都好帮忙我。
从拎包包,到爬楼梯....
好庆幸大家仍然那么合理的帮助我。
4个相依为命的小伙子,在这人生地不熟的地方,特别有感触。

感恩生命里有你们。<3 p="">

Sunday, November 2, 2014

豁达地接受KEMAMAN

好久好久没有上来这里了,看起来一切都如往年一样。
时间飞逝而去,我却仍然在这里。
今天来到了一个人生地不熟的地方。一个让我充满好奇,充满期待的地方。
虽然常常听说如果我之前去过的都是天堂,那么这里就会是个地狱。
其实我很清楚知道那只是个过去的概念,只要我撇开大家过去的概念,很快的我就能在这里作好准备把事情都作好了。

这段时间里,我经历了一段很值得收藏的体验。
一个很棒的课程,让我清楚知道人为何愁,人为何哀,为何苦....
而我自己也从中体验了很多我过去忽略的情感,感受。
如今,看事情都能比较豁达也不转牛角尖。
这个世界上每天都在发生一些些能改变我们一生的事情,而是我们选择了去看见或是逃避。
一般上,我都选择逃避,让一切都藏在地毯下。 
这个课程只是打开了我的眼睛去看见,而是否要做出改变都全凭我自己的选择。

所以呢所以呢... 来到这个陌生的地方,绝对不是一场意外,那是让我学习的途径。
我希望来这里的每一天都可以记下我遇见的人事物。
好让一切充满价值地记载着。

KEMAMAN之旅-人生其中一段旅程才刚刚开始!
加油!

Saturday, January 18, 2014

2014 Resolutions

Oopss... I know I'm late to talk about 2014 new year resolutions, and here we are at the 3rd weekend of January 2014. Anyhow, nothing will goes impossible if it is too late. So, I still decided to set my own resolutions in words, to remind and to warn myself no matter where I go, who I am, and what I am doing, are all about these resolutions, these purposes. =)

Before I start my words for the new year resolutions, I would like to recall what I have done in 2013.

I found I made a big mistake in 2013, it was to just leave my resolutions in mind, in a floating form. It brought me to a not so motivated and not so innovated to achieve my goals. And when I started to recall my stories in year 2013, I found I have not much achieved. Perhaps, I did not provide myself with a purpose for my livings, and no plan built during the year, it pushes me into a few darkness moment. Now, I might just able to recall some of the stories that I have did with no purpose. =(

Firstly, I achieved more time for myself, my relationship, and my works. I guess, it is not an appropriate achievement. I lose time for my family, my friends and my social life. That makes me feel guilty, lonely and depressed sometime. When I found myself lost, I couldn't find someone to share. Families and friends thought that I were pretty fine. "Fine" is always for someone that we don't really know to describe you. 23 years of family membership and more than 10 years of friendships, were easily lost when you did not show your effort to sustain it. Therefore, this may be my first resolution of the year, to built a balance of time for all abovementioned people.

Secondly, I brought myself more concentration to works, and lesser laughter in works. Past a year, when I first joined the firm, I brought colleagues laughter and brought everyone closer and together. During 2013, I lost myself in my happy living purpose, merely concentrating on my works. Achievement were losing the purpose of living. That makes me sometime feel lonely again when I see others were laughing without me. It's just like I brought everyone in a circle, and I immediate jumped out from that circle. This is bad, and I don't like the feeling. Hence, the second resolution for 2014, is to set myself a happy living purpose. No matter how, I should have stay positive always. =)

Thirdly, I only able to maintained my body weight at 51kgs. Sigh.... This is not an achievement for the year, it is merely a FAILURE. My main purpose is to lose my weight back into 47kgs-49kgs. During the year, I spent approximately RM1,000 for the products to lose my weight. And, I end up found my monies in the OCEAN. I couldn't get concentration towards my goals, and brought me down to failure. I hate this! So the third resolutions for 2014, is to lose my weight back to 47kgs STRICTLY NO EXCUSE! At the time, I want a THOR to be man, I must have a MEGAN FOX body! Wahahahaha! Hey, this is not a joke K! I going to achieve it! XD

Forth things here I achieved in 2013 was my work experience satisfactory. Time past like a blink of eyes, I have joined the firm for about 2 years. I feel thankful to all colleagues and the superiors that giving me huge chances to learn, and I believe I did learning well, perhaps not disappointing any of them. Culturally, we are not praised when we better, but we are punished when we are making mistakes. That will eventually improve us pretty well, in term of skills and knowledge. Not to say doing excellently, but at least it is satisfying. However, I understand that doing good is not good enough to improve my career into another stage. So, I decided started 2014, I will be attending ACCA classes to gained knowledge, built higher passions and interests to eventually assisting me to exposed the biggest possibility in my career. STAY HUNGRY! =D

Fifthly, my previous year financial year is finally achieved but being "sold" to my career. What it means? I have saved my targeted savings amount at the end of the year, but have been subsequently paid for my study. Shall I think positively and support it with my outcome of my study LATER. So, target in 2014 is to achieved ACCA passing grade for at least 2 subjects, the maximum can be only 3. Well, I just don't hope that I failed any subject during the year. I know that will easily turns my earlier mentioned resolutions into "grey", so I need a better planning skill to at least arrange my time accordingly to what I can do. Cum'on, it is not going to be hard, and it just need you to be rational enough to handle it. Take this challenge and achieve it! =)

Owh ya, forget to say, I did my last achievement of 2013 on the 31st December. Guess what is that? Hahaha... It is quite lame. I drove on a highway from Penang down to Tapah for 2 and a half hours approximately 220km, not saying to my destination, KL. WOW! it is interesting and I know how it feels. SLEEPY is the main killer on the highway. That was a few times that I knock off my head, and quickly back into lane. That was horribly dangerous. After this, I might know to handle drive in a highway. That's great! =D

Good things that I have achieved in 2014, is that I bought myself a car~ =) My SLK is now abandoned to my brother and sister-in-law. And I have get myself a Myvirati. Although it is a new one, and it is not as good as advance as a new one, but I appreciates that I have it after my SLK. New year, I got my new car. Congratz myself and going to do better with my new ride.

Thanks for all, my resolutions might not complete yet.
But time is chasing me up, it's working time again.

See ya'all again when I'm free to blog.
=))


Friday, January 17, 2014

Penang-Mainland

Dear readers,

Greeting everyone a Happy New Year and Happy Chinese New Year in advance. At the time that everyone with families are busy with their housekeeping works and preparing CNY goods, (which I supposed to be too) I'm right here in Penang have my outstation job. Guess what, I really love travel. My job makes me feel interesting and travel makes my working life much more interesting. 

Sometimes, I might be missing home, missing fatboy, missing lil motorcap girl, missing the muscular boyfie, missing moment with parents, etc. But we never knows, the moment that we are alone will bring the distance between these people we missing nearer and nearer. It gives us courage to stay closer to these people, and keep us warm. 

Although I need much more courage to sleep alone in a big hotel room, (hahaha... Thats my biggest threat) but still, stay positive is helping me to build up braveness. Well, I should have threw away the memory of the horror movie I have watch, and concentrate on the time to being alone. That's chinese people thinking, can't help much, just try to think optimistically and stay happy. 

We all here are like a family. I named everyone of us a character. 5 of us came here, 1 is the driver which I named him as Papa (my daddy is my our all time driver and GPS), another sit on the front passenger seat will be Mama (he is longwinded and soft enough to be a good mom), and three of us sitting at the back passenger seats are three bro-sister. As usual, I will be sitting at the middle, and both brother guard me at the side. The structure is just exactly like how my family is, whenever before the time appears of my sister-in-laws, fatboy and lil girl. That's how I keep warm among us in a very unfamiliar city, and keep warm for myself with my connecting family. 

Always, I feel so lucky to have them in my life. Families, Friends, Colleagues, they making me awful and making my life awesome. That's how I fall in love into where am I now. 

Maybe life get miserable when we once in a while think negatively, but when mood turns out better, we will see many things that worth to be loved. Also, so memory that worth our lookback with a sweet smiles. 

I kept the "Mickey Smiles" in my drawer, and the door in my heart was locked. I want the smile forever appear in my memory, and it will happily living in my heart. The forever never change truth is, I fell for a Mickey and I selfishly keep it for myself ONLY. No matter how the story goes subsequently, it will forever be with me, give it loves and cares. 

Owh.. Lets back to the subject of this blog. I would like to talk about Penang Mainland (Butterworth, Prai, Bukit Mertajam). Nothing much in mainland here, other than foods. Since we are coming up here for work, we did not want to spend too much during these days. All the while, we did our eating session just in some food stall. When you are here, you will find here have quite a numbers of foodcourt with various foods. The main famous foods here is White Curry Mee, Hokkien Mee (Prawn mee in KL), Yam Rice, Chicken Rice with Asam Soup, Chinese Tom Yam noodles with various materials to be chosen, and...... (to be continue) Up to now, these are the only foods which I tasted and I feel so great and special in this lil town. 

I personally love the Chinese TomYam noodles here. Maybe its because I am a spicy lover, a Tom Yam fans, so, when I found some special way to taste Tom Yam, I will feel extremely excited. And it just a lil different way of doing their tom yam business. Perhaps, also different recipe of cooking Tom Yam. IT is only in Jalan Raja Uda, Butterworth. Anyone come here during night time, must have a try of it. Erm, about the price, I think it consider moderately expensive. Every materials you add are counted in extra RM, so you may end up have you Tom Yam noodles up to RM20. Just beware of it, don't pick too much food stuff into your Tom Yam ya.

Ok, time to stop blogging and start my weekend works. See you guys soon =)

Best regards,
Missie