Lesson

We only come to realize when we went through some awkward situation or some bad things. 

People normally find life comfort when there is only good things happening always. 

We all have the ability to hypnotize ourselves, to convince ourselves when we repeat the same things.

The past experience did the persuade work, and the emotions take over the rational thinking. 

From time to time, we met different people in life. 

Some people we met at the right time, and we spent precious time together, it probably creates the sweetest memories. 

But, bare in mind, nothing last forever.

The first time being in at meeting for more than 5 hours. 

Together with a group of great people, talking about everything we suppose to be. 

The kindness people in the world, may not look good to everyone. 

But the cruelest people in the world, may not look bad all time. 

In order to recognise and differentiates all of them, we need time and hearts...

Well, its hurt to see all these happen. 

But, of cause, that's a lesson to learn. 

Hope everything is fine. 

I will be fine too. 

Social Network

Something real bad has happened yesterday. 

That was real bad to a so called, closed family. 

What is the source of the arguments? 

The Social Network. 

Not to say which type of social networks we are referring to, we do really have look at nowadays social network user's behavior. 

People are now conservative but believing in such unreasonable sources of information spread in the social network. 

Without thinking about the reality of such information, they blindly follow the trend, share and like the post. 

We do say yes, social network is a useful tool in doing small business and getting the start up well known. 

At the same time, it creates trouble to the society in how to handle the world crisis. 

Look back to the previous cases, crash of a few aircrafts, politicians and some silly news, 

What is the truth of the story? 

Without confirmation from any authority, people starts to spread the untrue information, and then everyone begins to have a behavior to presume. 

There and then, people just stop and stare in front of the computer and devices, non stop putting comments and likes. Do we really think that all these helps. 

For prayer, yes. 

In reality, if a like doesn't meant to a donation, it doesn't help. 

Few months back, someone post a picture, a poor child in Africa, with a few "Thumbs Up". When you see this you will know that meant alot to the current situation. 

The sadness of a useful tool, is misusing and misunderstanding it. 

The biggest lies on our life, is to interpret things through eyes instead of heart. 

Trust, easily lost. 

Relationship, easily break. 

Social Network, is rude when it is no longer being used appropriately. 

Reality

Every time I left the city for awhile...

Without burden, without worries... 

The only "MY" time...

It's the precious time I have with myself. 

This little short escape to the South, a place that I used to be there every year.

The place that I used to be independent and listen to myself.

The place that I met my long long lost friend. 

There is someone in life, you will always remember them.

Although both you did not keep in touch often, although both you never meet each other up. 

Believe it or not, these people appeared and make a little different in your life.

And that makes YOU.

Perhaps, they gave you confident to be live, they lead you the way to sunlight, or they might already gave you themselves authentically.

It's a little hard this time, for me to get back to this reality.

Because I care about that precious time I spent. 

Because I did really hope to see you doing well. 

Because you are always the person that lead me the right way. 

Thank you, and sincerely thanks again!

See you again

"It's been a long day, without you, my friend

  And I'll tell you all about it when I see you again

  We've come a long way, from where we begain

  Oh, I'll tell you all about it when I see you again"

A short story to share:

There was a little boy, he was good in study, he was kind in person. 

He respect people, he know where he belongs to since he was young. 

Someone that she will never forget, someone that she pretty sure that he knew he is kind enough to bring him a big life in a big man like him. 

To be apart for like 10 years. 

Every night, she dream to meet him up.

Every morning, she act to be kind as him.

Every year, she make wishes their reunion. 

Every single time she hope that will happen, that doesn't happen. 

Things changed when she met another person that is so called "LOVE".

LOVE is a humor person, always bring her laughter and happiness.

Until the miserable time, she put effort in LOVE, and the hardwork is worth.

One day, a gathering, miracles happened. 

He and she met. 

He changed a lot, he looks a lot more different, but something is remained...

His kindness, his smiles, and his positivity that he brought to the persons surrounding. 

She was too happy that her dream come true, her birthday wishes come true. 

She never forget about him in her life, and all the memories that they spent together.

She not so sure that how special this person is, but she know that he is important enough.

At least, some point of time, during miserable time, he will appeared in her mind and she will stay stronger, tougher, bigger. 

Until they keep in touch, they met up every year when there was a chance. 

During the 3rd time they met, she got to know that he was married few months ago. 

It was a bit sour, indeed, she still know that she will always give fully support to his decision and bless them. 

Time flies, when they met again in another year, many more changes happen to him. 

He lose everything in life, and what he has left, just a stronger him. 

She see strengths in him, his positivity and still his kindness. 

She told him about every single hope she had on him, and she tell him the story about how the chemical works in a person for 10 years. 

True love and love are different. 

True love stays more than a decade.

Love compiling with all habits, hardworks, and hopes to each other.

True love is beautiful but they always not right.

Love is complicating but they always come at the right time. 

He doesn't know how true that the love can be.

She forever have that precious true love in her fairy tale.

Life Changing - New Stage

Life changing in different stages. 

Every stages we walked pass, every milestone we achieved, something that are remarkable in life. 

Left my comfort zone, which is working as an auditor.

Get into a very different field of job.

 First of all, I gotta give myself a round applause, to acknowledge my courageous to taking such a big step further. 

For people who have staying in their comfort zone for years, this is a very difficult decision for them. 

Indeed, me too. 

Unfortunately, I only get to know about the comfort zone after I have been working in the new place for like few weeks. 

In life, there are some places give us opportunities to learn, to grow and to contribute. 

There are also some places give us a stage to perform our show. 

Of cause, there are also places that WANT us to contribute and show ourselves. 

From an auditor to an account administrator, it is very difficult to positioned ourselves. 

At this point of time, I don't see value in myself to this job yet.

In order to do something that you love, you will definitely being motivated. 

Like my old time with audit work. 

But Now, everyday I woke up with a pair heavy eyelids, one piece of heavy body, with no motivation. 

  Whole day long, I worked for more than 9 hours, with nobody see it, no appreciation. 

Whole day long, learning simple things to manage and arrange, and sometimes being scold because of my slow working pace. 

How can people work with motivation with such kind of environment?

When the time I knew the Company is a "youth" style company, I know that there must be very different from my previous firm. 

Because previously we have to be disciplined, and every single step that we took will be taken into account to determine your performance.

Now things changed to be only one word: RESULTS.

Results Results and Results. 

They are talking aboue KPI.

They are talking about being pushy.

They are also talking about fast.

etc.

 

Human being, always get lost when we are in danger. 

CAUTIOUS!

We must know that whats happening is what we created. 

This is the next level of challenges that I am taking. 

I have to learn how to deal with the negativity, the different kind of people and the different way of completing jobs. 

 

 

So, GET UP! and KEEP IT UP!

Everytime when we fell down, we learn different way to stand up, and choose the best to move on.

女人。爱

感情，这门学问还真不是简单的咧...

即使你修炼了个几十年，也未必真能实践出爱的真谛。

很多事情都是个人的想法驾驶我们的躯体去做事情。

然而，这将会是一场“没有灵魂的接触”。

再美丽的女人都会老去，满面皱纹，头发苍白；再有能力的男人也不能长生不老，也不能永存活力。

到了那个时候，就是身边留下了什么人，过着怎么安乐的日子才重要。

我常自问，一段感情里，到底是什么样的魔力把两个人牵扯在一起，也就这样走着走着就永远了。

最后留下的那个人未必是你最爱的那位，也可能不是最爱你的那位，可是感情就是这么一分魔力把两个人捆绑一起，走着走着就永远了。

今天见了一位朋友，她很成熟，很坚强，说话很大声，走起路来就是大喇喇的大姐大。

第一次，我知道他听过了那么多故事...

我明白了一对情侣再怎么亲密都还是会有秘密...

我懂得了伴侣并没有可以分享所有事情的权利。

这个女人说的每一字，每一句，都是一分不安。

她的男人背着她做出了很多让她难过的事情。

他不心疼她难过，他也不在乎她的在乎....

每个人，都一样，反应都会是“离开吧！”

这样的情节听起来挺熟悉的，曾经，我也这样过。

我想...我很了解她的心情。

可能我比她早遇见了那位可以提醒我身边的这位男人要懂得珍惜，懂得爱护的女人。

她的不安，她的难过，我都明白。

可她的答案，也是我常常给别人的答案“因为我爱他”。

爱，真的能那么伟大吗？

蒙蔽了女人的双眼，让人失去理智地去付出....

封锁了女人的泪腺，让眼泪都忘心里滴了下去....

真是这样吗？

女人，正是自己男人的一面镜子。

他停滞不前，她也不会改变；

他懂事疼惜，她美丽动人。

可悲的是，停滞不前自以为自己能攀爬好远的男人，身边总是拉着一位本可以飞得很高很远却宁可静静守着的女人。

这是爱，还是哀。